New Years Resolutions
- Think God!!!
- Lose Weight
- Make my Bed every Morning
- Be more patient with my family
- Read more to the kids everyday!
- Dual Budget get hubs involved
- Plan things and stick them out--- menu's!
- No more fast fooding - only if out of town or special occassions
- Work out 4 times a week
- Schedule a Family Night
- No internet late nights or supper
- Make that date with Hubs once a month
- "LISTEN" better
- Remember BDays and Anniversarys
- No nasty/naughty thoughts.. of anyone
- Visit friends/relatives more often and call
- Do not go out without hubs!!!
- DO NOT Drink and drive over 2 drinks in 3 hours
- To be in bed by 1230 everynight- unless working
- To be up b4 kids or right away when they are
- Keep to my cleaning schedule to make it easier
LOL omg I could type 100 more, I've been writing them as I think of them in a little notebook in my purse I sopose i'll print this out now and hang it on the fridge to remind me. Most are self explanatory, the Remember BDays are cuz the last 2 years I've gotten so bad at mailing cards out and father in law got on me about that and pictures of the kids.. opps.. the drinking and driving should just be a no no completely I know, last year I drove home too many times not even remembering... how horriable.. and irressponsible and how I hate myself for that... the listening is for my daughter who talks 24/7 and constantly interrupting I need to stop turn and listen or explain to her she needs to wait her turn, instead of tuning her out.. which I have found myself doing more recently.
Going to bed by 1230 is a must, I can't spend the time I want with my kids durning the day feeling rested when I'm tired and crabby. Making my bed everyday is just cuz my room is the only room that has no clutter.. just a bed, dresser, night stands and bookshelf and a tv stand and TV... nothing more laying around or cluttered and when I need to escape or want to veg out my favorite place in the whole house is my bed... on my fluffy comforter reading a book or watching TV or just listening to the radio but it's clean and non-cluttered and sopose why I like it and when my bed's made everyday just makes it more perfect. Silly huh.
As for those late night things i used to love to do, I have to go and do them during the day or plan them on a night I don't work and earlier or just don't do it. The no internet at night is mainly for my nights off, although i usually am not on then anyways but that's family time and no that's usually not a problem anyways but also it's for the time when the little ones are in bed and it's just hubs and me, our time not my time on puter... and also .. I won't get engrossed in some article or program or webpages designing or photo organizing and b4 ya know it it's 230 am.. like the 100 times that has happened to me. I'll start a new webpage and b4 I'm done I have a new site with 20 pages and 20 designs and it's 4am... no more. So if I say no internet at night that's what I'm talking about.
Think God! That's my number one for the year.. with him I don't have to worry any about the other things now do I! Yes I know that yet I have found myself so bad the last couple years and more and more discontent and I know it's because I have pushed God to the sidelines... i have sinned in ways I never imagined or thought I ever would/could and wow.. that's scarey now. So praying and reading and communicating with my pastor about my sins has helped a lot so far.
Family night.. that's simple, we need one! We havn't had one since I started working again. It used to be Sat's me hubs and J would play rummy 500 or payday once a week have game night.. now it's lucky if it's 2 times a year!!! Sunday I got off work early and was able to play one hand with J, but had to make a point and was almost a hassle, but we tried. Little kids wanted to play too makes it hard. Kids weren't even in bed when I got home, but still had them in the tub. Another area to work on, hubs and kids at night... I have to think of ways to make things easier on everyone in the house not just me, kids or hubs but us all.
Which I have to go cuz kids starting to get hungry gotta start dinner then I'm tackling my closet... hahahaha fun huh.. NOT.