Congrats lil Bro!
Still an ongoing crazy time... going to SF tomorrow morning early I hope I' just stuck $30 in my bro's card for graduation but going to pick out a nice shirt n tie for him also at that mall tomorrow when I go there.. n just tell him I was bad and didn't get it b4 but wanted you too look great when you start your "real" job search! Hehehe college graduate! lmao.. I was so proud of him... n I am getting so emotional the past few days... n during the ceremony just cried.. he's my baby bro... n got married now.. n moving 1000 miles away soon... n I'm just going to miss him so much. N hubs n I got into it last night again... just he's been so crabby n mean at me.. or I feel and I'm just a bit bummed about life n things n just feeling overwhelmed with no help on a few different subjects and I'm on the verge of a mental meltdown somedays... n was so fun to just sit n listen to my bro's band last night but then I got so sad.. they're leaving soon n I try to be happy for them yeap... n positive n nice n supportive n just want to say Nooo don't leave me i love you.. your my baby bro been thru so much n always hanging around n here n there n nice to talk to n to think in a few months he'll be gone.. gone.. and it's something I'll get over just fine... i know.. just makes me sad from time to time when i think about it.
Anyways on the subject of hubs n his non-responsive attitude to anything I say.. about how I feel or what I think or things that interest me.. are totally eating at me n whenever I try to talk to him about things that interest me i feel he could care less.. n doens't even really listen to me. And if I get serious n say.. honey this is important to me.. or I did this and was so proud n loved it or something about anything he's so negative n like i hate that... no Wow really.. or acts remotley interested in anything I have to say... so then I pout n figure FO I just won't tell you anything.. better to talk to a frickin wall then talk to you.. at least you know it's just gonna stand there n say nothings rather then have the man you love... n make you feel 2 inches tall.. It's back to that feeling if you alone by your own choice you can be so much happier then being with someone that hurts you cuz you feel they don't care. And he tries to do things to make me happy he does n 90% of the time I am.. just that again there are some things he can't complete n when I try to approch him with something to fill in the void.. he does the opposite n makes me feel crappy.
Like when I say I'm gonna miss my bro so much n been making me really depressed n sad n just wish he'd say.. it's ok i'm here.. i love you.. you'll be fine.. something nice... but instead says something like I never see my sister. OMG like you'd want to.. I've been the one to encourage all his relationships with his mom,, sister.. and even his daughters.. I've never stood in the way of anything of him.. but to totally disrespect my feelings n compare to nothing.. makes me feel like he could give a rip about mine. Like he's ever going to come to me and say I miss my sister... I'd be like OMG honey why don't we go visit or call her up.. invite her up sometime.. but she's a piece of work anyways... not a very nice person at all. At least my family is always there for us... not like his family ever does anything and that's fine.. but to compare my feelings n hurt with something non-relevant hurt .. and hurt a lot:(
I just feel I have no hubs that cares about me my feelings and hurts. OK I'm sooo emotional n thinking so crazy ... looking forward to my trip all alone in the morning n shopping n pickin up my son n enjoying his company. But really I don't want to be alone.. but can't ask anymore anything of him cuz it hurts even more when he doesn't pick up on it. N when I finally have to say something I feel worse cuz of his remarks. Whatever I guess.
Gotta work 2nite.. Had a lot of fun yesterday n last night.. Long day/night but fun! I may be a bit depressed... lonley or something but sure it'll pass as always n give me a nice warm shower now n get ready for work and I'll be happy! Wonder if it'll be crazy busy? Kinda hope so. So congrats to my brother for finally getting a degree n steping out into the real world n wish him the best n most happiness in whatever n where ever his life leads him... May he find peace n serenity in all he does n contentment! Love Ya XOXOXO I'm proud n so happy you are you... :) As crazy as he is losing his keys.. it's cute. hehehe hadda add that cuz after grad ceremony he had locked his keys in his truck... so after ceremoney hadda find someone with a wire hanger for 10 min and unlock it to get his keys... again LMAO.. Funny but gotta laugh cuz it's all the time! K gotta go :)